Monday, 30 December 2013

Sofea Continues Brainy Bunch Islamic Montessori

Eventhough there are quite number of issues I disagree with Brainy Bunch, I would still send Sofea there next year. I guess if I am not residing in Melaka, where most of the good kindies are owned by non Muslim, I would have sent her elsewhere. 
     If only the management of Brainy Bunch spent more on the development of its teachers, then I do think it will be good. I wish, their teachers would be more fluent in English. We paid so much for the fees and of course we don't expect our children to be influenced with the teachers' haywire English. 
The phrases like "open your shoes or wear your shoes' are I think commonly used by the teachers. At first, I thought only one particular teacher says it but I was shocked that my friend who send her girl to Brainy Bunch in Shah Alam also encountered the 'wear your shoes' thing. 
     Then there was this time when asked wheather Sofea has been able to eat as she was having a fever, the teacher said 'I give but little little'. Now, would you be okay if you pay almost RM600/month for the fee and this is the kind of language you get back? 
      Another issue that I am not comfortable with is the use of the word punishment to the young children. Disciplining and punishing are two different things. I still remember Sofea came home sadly told us that "tadi adik kena punish". She was punished to stay out of the room where the rests of the girls were put simply because she was not able to perform the compulsory nap. It still break my heart until now whenever I think about it.
       I was also not happy with the way the teachers communicate with the parents. Communication is only available through SMS or formal letters. In addition to these, there is this one time 5 minutes teacher meet the parents session a year to discuss on the children's learning. And I did not make it up about the 5 minutes meet up. It was stated in the letter.
      Nevertheless, I still send Sofea there because she is not the type to adapt well in new enviroment. Sending her to a new place would do us more harm. At least, she still have some of her friends from last school year to relate to. Her class teacher is also dependable and of course I've requested Sofea to still be under her guidance. Although I remember well that she did not thank me for the Teacher's Day gift and year end farewell gift. So unIslamic, don't you think so?
      Another reason why I still send Sofea there is because of the effective way they teach the children on the basic ibadat like solat, ablution and memorizing the surahs in the Quran. I am ashame that I could not memorize at-Takwir like Sofea does. Like Mufti Ismail Menk once said that it is amomg the difficult surah to be memorized. It will get you round and round because of the rhyming words.
      All and all, I must say that the reason she is still going there is simply I am happy watching her pray correctly and independently. Happy seing her reciting wirid after each prayer. It is so innocent and pristine on her. I just wish that she is one among my children that could sent me to Jannah. Amin.










8 comments:

  1. Paying RM600 a month in return with "I give but little little" is way ridiculous. I can understand why many parents resort to home schooling

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  2. I have the exact same issues as you did. I've been sending my daughter for 2 years to BBIM and now I'm reconsidering whether or not to continue next year. The aunties can't converse in English. Their grammar all berterabuh. My daughter still can't speak proper English as she speak in Malay most of the time in school. And about the Teacher's Day gift, surprisingly I had the same issue. The aunty did not even thank my daughter for the gift, it's so ridiculous. And the punishment part too.. She was punished when she was only 3+ years old for playing in the class with her friend while the aunty was teaching I guess. I just don't think these aunties are fit and educated enough to educate these kids. And the best part when I enquiry a certain thing from the management the aunty stopped communicating to me. She even said "mummy (my daughter's name) tengah mencabar aku" which my daughter eventually over heard. I really do not know why the management simply hire the aunties without any education and experience background. She's always strict with the kids. "Montessori" is supposed to be fun. But too bad the aunties do not know how to deal with these young kids and end up screaming at them most of the time. My daughter drags herself to go to school which is a pity.
    So now when I tried registering for next year, it prompts to terms and conditions, I don't remember if we had this before. There's 1 clause which states if anything happens to the child while at school, field trip, etc, they would not be liable for anything instead the parents will be liable. Is this fair? I'm not too sure on this part. Hope anyone can give some opinion . Thanks.

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  3. Salam pn Sara, can u share me which BB u sending your child?

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